Don’t meld your life around another.
Do your own thing. Make your own plans. What makes you happy? Where do you truly want to be? Create the life that fulfills you.
Surround yourself with people who you enjoy being with – people who understand you.
Find ways to be creative – through art, writing, working with your hands, gardening – whatever feels good.
Look at what you have in your life that’s working for you and not against you. Appreciate what you have.
If there’s going to be a special relationship then invite that person into your life when they’re a whole person. Never before that….